WOW, I must admit it is not often you are reluctant to see a month go, but March was one of those months, it was absolutely amazing in so many ways, the sheer volume of appointments, very few turned down due to time, though there were a some, and the variety of appointment also, both Dungeon and Medical! Many thanks to all those that came to see me and already I am looking forward to those of you booked into April so far.
I did manage to get away for a few days over to The Isle of Wight, a little bit of R&R and spent Mothers Day with Mum who is 92, bless her, it was great to see her and even better to see her looking quite perky, fit and healthy, well for a 92 year old anyway! I left Emenac at home and travelled with Stubbz, he had a party to go to which was lovely, some friendships last a life time and Stubbz has been friends with **A** for some 40 years now, great to see him and catch up.
On the way back we stopped off in a very sunny Wiltshire and visited with MistressSidonia and the equally stunning DominantDolly had a good old gossip and catch up, a few burning ears I reckon, we even found time for a bit of lunch which was very nice indeed. And today the 3rd of April, back to the grindstone appointments today and tomorrow and as ever with weekends here a very busy weekend coming up….It all keeps the wolves from the door so mustn’t grumble….
I would expect April to be much less busy than March, Easter Holidays and the like, already My diary is busy but very sparse round the Easter weekend, time to get away again I think, I shall be having a little jaunt to London and this time will travel with Emenac and leave Stubbz at home, absence makes the heart grow fonder I am told, in reality they will both do as they are told! I’m looking forward to it, I love My life with The Boyz but also very much enjoy spending time with them individually….
One interesting conversation with MistressSidonia when she informed Me My relationship was trending, and referred to it as a Trouple or is that Truple…..Couple with T for triple I guess, we laughed and she called Me a trend setter, but it did tweak My interest enough to look it up, thats where I discovered it to be also known as a Triad. I think I like Triad better but not completely made My mind up yet….So the term Trouple refers to a polyamory style relationship and is described in 3 forms,
Open Trouple
3 people in a committed relationship who are open to others NO, NOT QUITE!
Closed Trouple
3 people in a committed relationship and remain faithful to each other NO,NO, NO, NO, NO!
V Relationship
A “V Relationship” where one person is involved with the two others, but two others are not involved with each other romantically or sexually. “The one person involved with both others is called the ‘hinge partner” SortOf!
I am I guess a Hinge partner, My Boyz do not behave sexually toward each other, obviously both do toward Me when I allow! as with most things I do in My life, the boxes available never do I really fit into! There’s a surprise, so My Trouple, I really am thinking I like My Triad better…. There are three of us of course, Emenac and Stubbz are NOT involved sexually/emotionally/physically with each other but both are with Me, they remain faithful to Me and only Me, I am involved with Stubbz and Emenac physical/emotionally/sexually but I can and do see others so do not remain faithful to anybody, I have never been faithful in relationships but I don’t and never have considered Myself Poly,
I more feel that I just understand & accept Myself, I am very highly sexed, I understand men, I understand the power of sex and I understand the power of being a confident female, I have never had to or wanted to remain faithful to one partner and see no reason why I ever would, My Boyz in full steel Chastity belts of course have very little choice but to remain faithful they can of course ask to be released and leave the relationship, their choice, still I’m confident if asked, both would tell you they are happy, both tell you they feel My deep love for them, both tell you they feel My great pride in them, and they are right to! I love them both very much, I am fiercely proud of them, They are My happy place, My safe place, both are man enough to understand that the sex I have outside of our relationship is recreational and always I return to My wonderful Boyz…….. poly/cuckold/hotwife/slutwife, they are all just names, I more see it I accept who I am and embrace it, enjoy it, I control a female led relationship where all are happy! We call it The Bubble, all, including Myself always return to The Bubble…….
Shockingly it is the run up to Easter weekend and I am busy, I think I’ll never figure this industry out fully, busy when expecting not to be, quiet when expecting to be busy, it’s a good thing I think, it keeps you on your toes and keeps you looking to stay at the top of your game, well it does Me anyway, often clients will mention other Mistresses they have visited, I never ask, and never take too much notice, I know the vast majority are just blowing smoke, BUT, the complaint I hear the most is when the client feels the Mistress is just going through the motions, hence it is good to be kept on your toes and stay current, continue to improve……I do this with thought, care and attention to detail as well as constantly adding in new kit! it seems to be working!
So a little more about My fabulous weekend, a trip to the theatre to see Moulin Rouge, right at the very front and a bar beneath the stage a really wonderful thoughtful evening out with Emenac, you can see from the last photo I kept his full attention on Me throughout The show was amazing….Stubbz would have hated every minute and been bored to the very core of himself the great advantage of two loved ones, there are things Stubbz and I do that Emenac dislikes, having My cake, Eating it, Loving it….Thank you My Emenac, a forever memory, our time together was beautiful, between the wonderful entertainment you arranged the gorgeous hotel you also served Me well and satisfied Me completely.
I returned home early Sunday morning to avoid the outrageous traffic we experienced on the way in and after two nights away from Stubbz I was missing him massively….he had prepared a beautiful roast lamb dinner with honey roast parsnips and carrots, My favourite, then when I went to the door leading to My suite I discovered the Boyz had yet again conspired, in a good way of course, a wonderful Easter egg trail leading up stairs into My dressing room, a huge egg and a wonderful present and the most beautiful card, the poem inside which I have not shared was so emotional……I’m not supposed to admit to these sorts of things but I cried….My beautiful beautiful Boyz..
And a final gesture as if I had not been pampered and spoiled enough, a nice new handbag, it is much more beautiful in hand than the photo’s make it look, I love it, I love My life and I love My Boyz……one of the very best weekends ever!
Today is Tuesday and it is back to the grindstone, after such a fantastic weekend it has come somewhat hard but at the same time as I often say I am really happy in My life and love what I do…..
lots of admin to catch up with then this afternoon and into the evening sessions, one Dungeon and the 2nd one Medical, I think I jinxed things above saying I was expecting things to be quieter, I am again inundated with appointments, messages, emails etc, I also have a few mentoring sessions booked in, not something I often talk about but something I have been doing for a couple of years now and it has grown and grown, I have a very well known UK lady and a Canadian and an Australian booked in this month, it is nice to give back to the community, it is a community I love, one that has given Me a comfortable living for several decades now, a good friend of mine calls the community **My Tribe** and I think thats a superb way of describing it, anyway comparable to a lot out there offering mentoring I work relatively cheap and only charge My tribute fee as opposed to a separate menu of prices, maybe thats part of why it is so popular, who knows it is as they say another string to My bow and one I enjoy also….
Once again thanks for reading, a much more **ALL About Me** type of blog rather than Medical, folks seem to like an insight to Me, or so they tell me, I will though endeavour to write more Medical next I sit to type, until then take care and My best wishes to you all Dr.Sara x x x