The end of 2025 is upon us, what a year it has been, I’ve moved house, I’ve moved the business, it has in its own way been exhausting, I have also built a new relationship, truth be told I’m still building a new relationship which is difficult when there are 2 but when there are 3 even more so, anything having is worth working for though and My 2 Boyz are in My not so humble opinion very much worth working for. I love them both dearly and deeply but as I’m sure you can imagine there are and no doubt will continue to be little aspects that need working on, 2 Alpha males living in close quarters, 2 beta to Me males wanting and needing My attention, but over all I love My life and I am confident we are together for ever and ever and that is My want and wish……At this time of year I look forward to a good couple of weeks off, I call it getting off the roundabout, a recharge of the batteries and some plan making for the new year ahead.

It is a fate if you like, by this end of the year I am so ready for a break, the tiredness has built and built over the year to the place where you can only be described as knackered and time off is an essential rather than a luxury, and low and behold the appointment roll in quicker than you can deal with them, everyone is going to be locked indoors with in-laws and outlaws, building toys making pleasantries and they are all trying to grab a slot in the first 2/3 of the month before it all begins, I never grumble at being busy, I love My life and I love My job, My biggest worry is always not to find time for My regulars and let them down, I really do hate that. Today is the 5th though you won’t read this till it has long past, already I am pretty full in the diary….

I wrote before that often you just have to make a move and always that leaves things undone, however My favourite saying is **Ever Improving, Ever Evolving** when I moved I created a new part to The Practice a White room, it is still not finished, I don’t think it will ever be finished, but the new electric bead is now fully loaded with restraints so one job in the white room complete, Ever Evolving, Ever Improving…..

 

 

For those that think it’s all feet up between sessions, ordering and commanding the two Boyz to fetch and carry for me, all I can say is I wish…..I am with the Enfettered side of My life as the logo says packing parcels like crazy between sessions and into the evening after Clinic has finished for the day, the 22nd can’t roll round quick enough for a little R&R…

So My search for a Naughty Nurse is over, after a full year I have given up, amazing I think how the industry has changed over the years, when I started out I actually paid someone to teach me how to do various treatments and teach Me new skill sets, and here I am a year advertising, You can come and work along side Me, get paid and if you pay attention learn enough to operate a business! Nobody wants to know, that sounds very unfair and it is to some extent, I have had some (I believe) who would have been great, but too far away, want to work it in round a day job, want too much money because they already have some Mistress skills (not medical) the power or is it the downside of the internet?  Whilst I have a good few years in Me yet I did have visions of selling it when I’m ready and leaving a legacy……. I have now completely given up. So if you see an advert anywhere I have done My best to remove them all, but if there is the odd one slipped through then I’m sorry the offer is firmly off the table.

Time wasters, I read on the various platforms about ladies thoughts on time wasters, I disagree with a large amount of them, if a guy calls and lets you know he can’t make it because he has got ill I am very grateful for that, last thing I want is a flu or cold that will force Me to take time off, basically anyone who lets you know they can’t make it in a reasonable time is honest not a time waster, you have a deposit it’s easy money. funny as well if you cancel an appointment you’re not a time waster. Anyway I digress as I am niche market (I think thats why) I don’t seem to suffer from time wasters I’d be unlucky if I got 3 or 4 a year, all My appointments, well 90% of them are regulars, I do get cancellations of course but time wasters it is rare……Today is Saturday the 13th and today I have a no show, on the one hand it’s lovely to get a Saturday off with no work, he paid 50% of a 3 hour session as a deposit as do all new to me so money for nothing, but on the other hand I could have filled that space 3 times over with a regular and that is the part that I dislike, I usually at the end of the month manage to get everyone in but at Christmas where everyone and their uncle wants to come you have always let a few down and that I really dislike…..just My thoughts.

So whilst I have been seeing/had Emenac in My life some 15/6 years now we only moved in together with Stubbz coming up a year ago, it is as regular readers know a FLR and behind closed doors high protocol, I am a huge believer in ritual, punishment, discipline and reward, I hope that punishment is never needed but in the first few years I enjoy and believe also it forms good habits, discipline, so every Friday I take Emenac aside and discipline him for any misdemeanours he has committed through the week. when done I allow him as a reward and a fresh start to the coming week to worship Me and bring Me to orgasm. You see above the first 5 strikes of the 40 he earned himself last week. I do love Fridays it has to be said……..

I am a huge lover of costume jewellery as you know and this time of year My regular boys are so, so generous sending gifts, thank you **Trevor** I absolutely love, love love this Ted Baker triple bangle, 3’s/truples/triads play a huge part in My life as you know,  thank you!

Staying on gifts, thank you all throughout the year who have bought and sent things from My various wish lists, they are very thoughtful, very kind and also very much appreciated, now if you look like the above in your Santa outfit, or have a friend you can bring along then I would be very happy indeed, if it’s a friend not yourself then you would be expected to sit quietly in the corner whilst I do bad things with Santa……

The last week I will be working before Christmas so as it nears it’s middle and the end is super busy I am going to say goodbye, I really do hope you have the very best of Christmases you can have wherever you are and whatever you are doing, I am as always off to My beloved Isle of Wight and business will resume in the new year…..take care out there, stay fit and healthy, from the bottom of My heart thank you and I look forward to seeing you all again soon….